Why I have been MIA

Many of you have been wondering what has been going on with me that I have been mia. Now that all decisions have been made I can finally tell you.

As you know my Hubs has been unemployed for a year and finally found a job with a temp agency but has been let go once a gain. We have been having a really hard time making ends meet and it’s to the point that we may lose our apartment. My mother is in the same boat as us, she may lose her car and other things. My father is worrying he mite not get a pension check any more as well.

So we have made the decision to leave the apartment and move in with my parents. It will help them and us out a lot, we (hubs and I) can take over some of her bills and still save money because the only thing we will be paying for is our storage unit. This will give all of us some much needed breathing room. We are looking to only stay there for a year at the most with the hopes that in that time that we all have saved enough money to help get us all back on track.

I can tell you it was not the easiest decision we have had to make due to we are losing a lot,

1 We are giving up our freedom: Think how it is when you go visit family over the holidays (but for a year :( ) and we are night owls and they are day birds so we will have to be real quiet. ECT…..

2 I will lose all connection with the online world: My parents do not have Internet so it will be really hard to keep in touch with you gals. I will miss my TTMT and Ustream. I will try my best to update and log in from my phone but if there’s a long gap you will know why. You can always email me or dm me on twitter I will get them fine.

3 Crafting: I will lose my crafting time and space, I have to pack all of it away to storage. I am going to see if I can take some things with me but it will not but much. Due to this My “Trade Ya” one on one swap is on hold. The ones that I have received I will make and get out as soon as I can. The POD will be done!! I have come too far to stop that project now!! I also will not be joining a challenges or swap for a long time. For peeps that have my address now if you would like my new one please email.

4 The HARDEST and most PAINFUL will be the lost of my cat due to my mom has dogs a bird. It’s KILLING me that I have to find him a new home. I know there are people out there that may not like animals and don’t understand what the big deal is about but to me my cat is like my SON!! (we are still trying to work its)

I have started to get the boxes and and we will be packing all of August, we plan to be out by the 31st. The sad thing is that all birthday and anniversary plans have gone out the window :( O well we have to do what we have to do to survive right!

I am telling this to you not for sympathy or attention I just wanted you to know because you gals are a big part of my life and have been there for me for so many things and I owe you the truth. I hope to keep in touch with you until the end of August but I will be updating this blog as much as I can cause I can do that from my phone so keep an eye out.

Love ya